That quiet dread. It starts on a Sunday evening. You’re thinking about the week ahead, and your stomach gives a little lurch. It’s not the workload. It’s not the deadlines. It’s the thought of dealing with *that* team member. The one who isn’t pulling their weight. You’re a new manager, you want to be liked, you want to build a great team, but this situation is threatening to derail it all. If you’re reading this, chances are you’re wrestling with how to deal with an underperformer, and you’re not alone. It’s one of the toughest challenges a new leader faces, but tackling it head-on is a defining moment in your journey as a manager. This guide will give you a practical framework to handle it with confidence and fairness.
Let’s be honest, it’s tempting to ignore the problem and hope it goes away. The reasons for avoidance are completely normal. You might be thinking, “I don’t want to be the bad guy,” or “What if I’m wrong and I make things worse?” Many new managers feel a sense of self-doubt, a classic case of imposter syndrome, which makes the prospect of a difficult conversation terrifying. You might simply not know how to start the conversation, or you might tell yourself, “Maybe the problem will fix itself.” But here’s the hard truth: it rarely does. Delaying the conversation not only prolongs the issue but can also damage your credibility and the morale of the entire team.
Before you march in with a performance improvement plan, it’s crucial to take a step back and diagnose the situation properly. What looks like underperformance can sometimes be a symptom of a different problem entirely. Before you conclude that an employee is not meeting expectations, ask yourself a few questions. Have you set crystal-clear, measurable goals? Does your team member know exactly what’s expected of them? Do they have the necessary training and resources to do their job effectively? Sometimes, a simple software training session or access to the right tools can make all the difference. Also, consider their workload. Is it possible they’re overloaded and heading for burnout? Or could there be personal issues outside of work affecting their performance? Finally, take a look at your team dynamics. Is there a conflict with another team member that’s creating a toxic environment for them? Taking the time to investigate these areas first is not only fair but can also save you from a difficult conversation that was never needed.
Once you’ve ruled out other factors and are confident that you’re dealing with a genuine performance issue, it’s time to prepare for a conversation. A structured approach will help you stay on track and ensure the conversation is productive and fair. The first step is to prepare thoroughly. Gather specific, observable examples of the performance gap. Instead of saying, “You’re not being proactive,” try, “In the last two team meetings, you haven’t contributed any new ideas.” Focus on the behaviour and its impact, not the person’s personality. You should also be clear on the expected standard of performance and have some open-ended questions ready to encourage a two-way conversation. The second step is the conversation itself. Find a private, neutral space where you won’t be interrupted. While the “sandwich approach” (praise, criticism, praise) is often recommended, it can be confusing and dilute the message. It’s better to be direct but empathetic. Start by stating the purpose of the meeting, present your observations with the specific examples you’ve prepared, and then, most importantly, ask for their perspective and listen. Your goal is to collaboratively identify the root cause of the issue and agree on a clear plan for improvement, with specific actions and a realistic timeline. Always end the conversation by expressing your confidence in their ability to improve. The final step is to follow up. This isn’t a one-off conversation. Schedule regular, informal check-ins to discuss their progress, provide the support you agreed on, and, crucially, acknowledge and praise any improvement you see. This shows you’re invested in their success.
No one likes paperwork, but when it comes to managing underperformance, documentation is your best friend. It’s not about building a case against someone; it’s about creating a clear and fair record of the support you’ve provided. Good documentation protects you, the employee, and the company. After your conversation, make a note of the date and time, the specific examples you discussed, the employee’s response, and the agreed-upon improvement plan, including the timeline. You should also keep a brief summary of your follow-up check-ins. This record will be invaluable if the performance issues continue and you need to escalate the situation.
As a new manager, it’s important to know when to ask for help. Escalating an underperformance issue to HR isn’t a sign of failure; it’s the next logical step in a fair and structured process. You should consider involving HR when you’ve provided support and seen no improvement, if the underperformance is having a serious negative impact on the team or the business, or if you suspect the issue is related to something more serious, like discrimination or harassment. HR can provide expert advice and ensure you’re following the correct procedures, especially when you’re considering formal disciplinary action. They are your partners in this process, so don’t hesitate to reach out.
Underperformance doesn’t just affect one person; it has a ripple effect across the entire team. When one person isn’t pulling their weight, others have to pick up the slack, which can lead to resentment and a drop in morale. While it’s crucial to maintain confidentiality and avoid discussing the situation with other team members, you can reassure them that you’re aware of the challenges and are taking steps to address them. By tackling underperformance head-on, you’re sending a powerful message to your team: that you’re committed to fairness, high standards, and the success of the team as a whole. This will ultimately build trust and respect for you as a leader.
Dealing with underperformers is a tough but essential part of being a manager. By diagnosing the issue accurately, having a structured and empathetic conversation, documenting your actions, and knowing when to escalate, you can handle the situation with confidence and fairness. It’s a skill that will serve you throughout your leadership career, helping you to build a resilient, high-performing team. Remember, you’re not just a manager; you’re a coach, and sometimes the most valuable coaching you can give is the honest feedback that helps someone get back on track.
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